seibei - David avatar

getting asked out by customers/fans

posted 2 months ago by seibei

I’m sure it’s happened to a few people on here - I’m not particularly famous or handsome, and it’s happened to me at least twice.

Neither time that it happened makes for a particularly good story - one time I got hit on super hard while working at a craft show and it was kinda funny afterwards because the woman was laying it on really thick, and one time I got asked out by a local person who bought a shirt through my website, but whatever.

The reason I am posting this is not because I think I’m hot shit - the reason I am posting this is because one of you, unlike me, is bound to have a good story. Maybe.

Or, on the flip side, maybe some of you have asked out fans/customers and it’s gone terribly wrong or awesomely.

47 Comments

  1. heroes - rich avatar

    heroes said 2 months ago

    i carry a stick to beat them away a big stick

  2. Time Without the E - Tim Hyde avatar

    Time Without the E said 2 months ago

    i meet a gf of mine at a show and she recognized me from my line adding her on myspace lol.
    it was great and we broke up on mutual good terms cause she moved to Italy to study aboard.

  3. heavyprints - Nick avatar

    heavyprints said 2 months ago

    heroes said: i carry a stick to beat them away a big stick

    It’s true. Sometimes we have to taze them off of him.

  4. RustyEight - RustyEight Media avatar

    RustyEight said 2 months ago

    Not a lot of date proposals (one or two), but many boob autographs.

  5. jimiyo - Jimi Benedict avatar

    jimiyo said 2 months ago

    Awesome. Post pics!

    I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world...

    It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

  6. heavyprints - Nick avatar

    heavyprints said 2 months ago

    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world...

    If you show them that snot picture from when you were sick and they’re still interested, it’s true love.

  7. DCAY - DCAY avatar

    DCAY said 2 months ago

    The chick’s that know I print shirts usually offer a boobie shot, or if they are extra adventurous, a hands-on boob-shot, for a free-Tee... but no dates thus far.

  8. explodingtoes - explodingtoes avatar

    explodingtoes said 2 months ago

    back when i used to tour, my gf was always selling the merch...so i’m pretty sure she fought off any fly honey’s

  9. 4Sevens - 4Sevens avatar

    4Sevens said 2 months ago

    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world... It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

    Here ya go:

  10. William. - William Matte, Jr. avatar

    William. said 2 months ago

    heroes said: i carry a stick to beat them away a big stick

    girls can be so aggre$$ive.
    looks are everything.
    don’t let anybody tell you otherwise.

    das tha truf right thurr.

  11. Mr.Stan Geek  - Stanley avatar

    Mr.Stan Geek said 2 months ago

    They think you have money so really they are gold diggers

  12. hideyourarms - Andrew Bowness avatar

    hideyourarms said 2 months ago

    seibei said: I think I’m hot shit

    The power of HYA hasn’t yet scored me legions of groupies, the closest I get to getting hit on is adoration (possibly faux-adoration) from people asking for coverage.

  13. godmachine - Az' avatar

    godmachine said 2 months ago

    heroes said: i carry a stick to beat them away a big stick

    he’s not joking. but its not really a stick , its his kn..

  14. basil - Basil Vargas avatar

    basil said 2 months ago

    wait so you reject them? even the hot ones?

    hit it and quit it

  15. scapyyy - Brandon avatar

    scapyyy said 2 months ago

    people that ask you out/lay on some game based on the fact you have a clothing company & could possibly have money are called gold diggers. 9 times out of 10 they are pretty hot too. hahahaha

  16. Nefarious - Nick avatar

    Nefarious said 2 months ago

    i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade... and thenn even hotter ones once we opened our store hahaha

  17. Mr.Stan Geek  - Stanley avatar

    Mr.Stan Geek said 2 months ago

    SCAPYYY said: people that ask you out/lay on some game based on the fact you have a clothing company & could possibly have money are called gold diggers. 9 times out of 10 they are pretty hot too. hahahaha

    even if they are hot this is what you do if they ask you out tell them they have to pay cause your business is using all your money up and you will pay next time. Then when next time comes when you get the check tell her you have to use the bathroom and then cut out. Not saying I did that but it would make a great story to tell your friends lol

  18. Time Without the E - Tim Hyde avatar

    Time Without the E said 2 months ago

    The Higher Class said: i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade... and thenn even hotter ones once we opened our store hahaha

    so by "bitches" you mean dudes right?

  19. Nefarious - Nick avatar

    Nefarious said 2 months ago

    Time Without the E said:
    The Higher Class said: i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade... and thenn even hotter ones once we opened our store hahaha

    so by "bitches" you mean dudes right?

    if i was talking about YOU then you’d be correct, but i wasn’t...

  20. basil - Basil Vargas avatar

    basil said 2 months ago

    The Higher Class said: i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade...

    you’re not cole

  21. DrewGliever - Drew Gliever avatar

    DrewGliever said 2 months ago

    basil said: wait so you reject them? even the hot ones? hit it and quit it

    good advice coming from a 12 year old.

  22. Nefarious - Nick avatar

    Nefarious said 2 months ago

    basil said:
    The Higher Class said: i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade...

    you’re not cole

    im cole x10

  23. scapyyy - Brandon avatar

    scapyyy said 2 months ago

    The Higher Class said: i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade... and thenn even hotter ones once we opened our store hahaha

    lies. lies. lies. =]

  24. Master_Control - Master Control Program avatar

    Master_Control said 2 months ago

    DrewGliever said:
    basil said: wait so you reject them? even the hot ones? hit it and quit it

    good advice coming from a 12 year old.

    ohhhhhhhhhhhh

  25. Nefarious - Nick avatar

    Nefarious said 2 months ago

    SCAPYYY said:
    The Higher Class said: i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade... and thenn even hotter ones once we opened our store hahaha

    lies. lies. lies. =]

    sooo the remaining balance on your wolf eye tees just went up $100!

  26. William. - William Matte, Jr. avatar

    William. said 2 months ago

    SEIBEI- i totally love your site and your designs.

    just a little 'attaboy for you!

  27. scapyyy - Brandon avatar

    scapyyy said 2 months ago

    The Higher Class said:
    SCAPYYY said:
    The Higher Class said: i’ve been banging hot bitches since like 8th grade... and thenn even hotter ones once we opened our store hahaha

    lies. lies. lies. =]

    sooo the remaining balance on your wolf eye tees just went up $100!

    oooooooh sick burn.

  28. Jon Kruse - Jonathan Kruse avatar

    Jon Kruse said 2 months ago

    heroes said: i carry a stick to beat them away a big stick

    an ugly stick

    ohhhhhh

  29. beth - Bethy avatar

    beth said 2 months ago

    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world... It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

    As your future best friend I would like to state that not all women are shallow!! I cant say I have ever asked out a designer in my life...nor flirted with one...except Jimmy...and Cole...or paying customers....

    But...

    On my last day at Districtlines a 14 year old boy who lived in texas asked me out...it was quite strange...i would get alot of guys in bands always flirting with me too..but I dont date within the music industry.

  30. justgeoff - Geoff May avatar

    justgeoff said 2 months ago

    That’s how it was when I was in bands. Chicks would throw themselves at me after the show. I know damn well that if they just saw me on the street they wouldn’t even bother.

  31. jaynajaynajayna - Jayna avatar

    jaynajaynajayna said 2 months ago

    Hey! Advice to guys! Even if you aren’t completely monetarily successful, just putting yourself out there and being successful/popular/good at what you do can be very attractive.

    Also an even deeper secret, you don’t have to be conventionally good looking to attract women. Just confident and engaging and know what you’re doing.

  32. jaynajaynajayna - Jayna avatar

    jaynajaynajayna said 2 months ago

    P.S. What is wrong with all of you

  33. Boycott Christian HC - Boycott Christian HC avatar

    Boycott Christian HC said 2 months ago

    Reading this thread made me realise my artwork business has been a complete failure ;)

  34. Master_Control - Master Control Program avatar

    Master_Control said 2 months ago

    jaynajaynajayna said: P.S. What is wrong with all of you
  35. edgillustrator - edgil avatar

    edgillustrator said 2 months ago

    i dont get asked on dates .. ever.

  36. Ameeee - Amy Brown avatar

    Ameeee said 2 months ago

    edgillustrator said: i dont get asked on dates .. ever.

    I guess you’re disregarding all the passes made at you by men and girls alike on here. Haha.

  37. edgillustrator - edgil avatar

    edgillustrator said 2 months ago

    Ameeee said:
    edgillustrator said: i dont get asked on dates .. ever.

    I guess you’re disregarding all the passes made at you by men and girls alike on here. Haha.

    hahah what passes?

  38. Ameeee - Amy Brown avatar

    Ameeee said 2 months ago

    edgillustrator said:
    Ameeee said:
    edgillustrator said: i dont get asked on dates .. ever.

    I guess you’re disregarding all the passes made at you by men and girls alike on here. Haha.

    hahah what passes?

    Haha, there’s a few kiddies here who say shit in AIM chat....
    I can’t think of specifics right now - you’re just being coy!

  39. Robmcbride - Robmcbride avatar

    Robmcbride said 2 months ago

    Oh edgil, you dreamboat you.

  40. jaynajaynajayna - Jayna avatar

    jaynajaynajayna said 2 months ago

    beth said:
    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world... It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

    As your future best friend I would like to state that not all women are shallow!! I cant say I have ever asked out a designer in my life...nor flirted with one...except Jimmy...and Cole...or paying customers....

    But...

    On my last day at Districtlines a 14 year old boy who lived in texas asked me out...it was quite strange...i would get alot of guys in bands always flirting with me too..but I dont date within the music industry.

    I thought you just "didn’t date"?

  41. dobi - Rob Dobi avatar

    dobi said 2 months ago

    i went out with a girl who found me through my website for 2 years, i married another girl who did the same.

  42. Cole - Cole Blotcky avatar

    Cole said 2 months ago

    jaynajaynajayna said:
    beth said:
    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world... It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

    As your future best friend I would like to state that not all women are shallow!! I cant say I have ever asked out a designer in my life...nor flirted with one...except Jimmy...and Cole...or paying customers....

    But...

    On my last day at Districtlines a 14 year old boy who lived in texas asked me out...it was quite strange...i would get alot of guys in bands always flirting with me too..but I dont date within the music industry.

    I thought you just "didn’t date"?

    she just bangs and strips.

  43. jaynajaynajayna - Jayna avatar

    jaynajaynajayna said 2 months ago

    Cole said:
    jaynajaynajayna said:
    beth said:
    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world... It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

    As your future best friend I would like to state that not all women are shallow!! I cant say I have ever asked out a designer in my life...nor flirted with one...except Jimmy...and Cole...or paying customers....

    But...

    On my last day at Districtlines a 14 year old boy who lived in texas asked me out...it was quite strange...i would get alot of guys in bands always flirting with me too..but I dont date within the music industry.

    I thought you just "didn’t date"?

    she just bangs and strips.

    niiiiiice

  44. beth - Bethy avatar

    beth said 2 months ago

    Cole said:
    jaynajaynajayna said:
    beth said:
    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world... It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

    As your future best friend I would like to state that not all women are shallow!! I cant say I have ever asked out a designer in my life...nor flirted with one...except Jimmy...and Cole...or paying customers....

    But...

    On my last day at Districtlines a 14 year old boy who lived in texas asked me out...it was quite strange...i would get alot of guys in bands always flirting with me too..but I dont date within the music industry.

    I thought you just "didn’t date"?

    she just bangs and strips.

    Old friend, you always have my back!

    I don’t date...I think its stupid

  45. skullface - Jessica avatar

    skullface said 2 months ago

    Ameeee said:
    edgillustrator said:
    Ameeee said:
    edgillustrator said: i dont get asked on dates .. ever.

    I guess you’re disregarding all the passes made at you by men and girls alike on here. Haha.

    hahah what passes?

    Haha, there’s a few kiddies here who say shit in AIM chat....
    I can’t think of specifics right now - you’re just being coy!

    a few kiddies, yes, Edgil!

  46. jaynajaynajayna - Jayna avatar

    jaynajaynajayna said 2 months ago

    beth said:
    Cole said:
    jaynajaynajayna said:
    beth said:
    jimiyo said: Awesome. Post pics! I used to sell girls designs, at shows, some would be all googly eyes. Kinda put me off, cause any other day, any other occasion, I would be just the normal guy... Kinda made me feel great, but then I couldnt ignore the fact that, they were interested in me because of their perceived image of me. Makes me view women as shallow... Im sure men are that way too... the whole world... It’s also because my balls are awesome. Cant find link.

    As your future best friend I would like to state that not all women are shallow!! I cant say I have ever asked out a designer in my life...nor flirted with one...except Jimmy...and Cole...or paying customers....

    But...

    On my last day at Districtlines a 14 year old boy who lived in texas asked me out...it was quite strange...i would get alot of guys in bands always flirting with me too..but I dont date within the music industry.

    I thought you just "didn’t date"?

    she just bangs and strips.

    Old friend, you always have my back!

    I don’t date...I think its stupid

    Yeah dude, establishing a connection and situation of mutual enjoyment and waking up to sleepy smiles in the morning is so lame!! Dumb!!

  47. beth - Bethy avatar

    beth said 2 months ago

    I just dont like going through all that crap...I enjoy being alone

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